I had 4 housemates to help cover the mortgage

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      I didn’t fully appreciate this until after I had my two children at age 21. No regrets of course, things would just have been different if I had had more time to plan.

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    My mother has a PhD, has lived in three continents, at 70 was still windsurfing and skiing, plants a ton of shit, has written two books, has always painted, and had her works in exhibitions… And has two children, and six grandchildren.

    It’s you who sets your goals and limitations (mainly)

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    holy fuck i just realized i achieved my life’s goal at the ripe age of, uh, 17. wanted to be a professional musician. went out busking. someone put a one in my case. it’s all i made that day but MISSION ACCOMPLISHED FUCK YEAH. I never said i necessarily had to be a good musician or nothin

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      I didn’t even know my current goals were a thing when I was 17.

      I’m currently solo-creating a physiotherapy game console that helps sick kids have an enjoyable and better experience doing their health-preserving physiotherapy. That’s my current hobby project. And it’s all open source with the build plans available for parents who can’t afford to buy a ready-made version.

      At age 17 I didn’t even know that’s something one can do.

      What I mean, it’s good to have goals, but life isn’t over when you achieve them.

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        Good on you for not selling it to some “Healthcare” company that’ll sell it for 10 grand a pop, or 9 after insurance.

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    I have always found it strange how having kids is considered a milestone to achieve in life. I don’t get it.

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    … wait, you’re the actual Devil’s Panties?

    Hi! Someone’s been posting your stuff here so I’ve been enjoying it though that. Thanks for the continued work!

    Also, funny how things turn out, huh?

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      Just because I’m married with kids still doesn’t make that my life’s goal. Making impactful unifying art doesn’t stop because I’m a mom. I drew comics in the nursery while feeding my newborn at 3am. My priorities have not changed.

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        Sorry if this came out swinging. I’m very much a “you’re gonna have to pry the pencil out of my cold dead hand” mindset when it comes to comics or any question of doing comics.

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          Nah it’s fine, anyone who has read your comments would expect a reply like that 😂 it’d be more confusing if you didn’t come out swinging.

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            I was there.

            It’s true. The people sporting Punisher merch were usually rightwing douchebags. Back then the rightwing part wasn’t as apparent, but you knew once you heard the Pantera blasting out of their Dodge ram.

            We are the other side of the coin from a thread on 4chan making fun of blue-haired trans people. If we threw a rock straight down from this point in the internet, it would nail an Anon in the crotch.