Gosh darn it, y’all got me there…

I think they’re hinting at you to tell them what these other solutions are

Exactly, now i have time that instead of being spent nurturing a friendship is just lost to my own inability to do stuff…and because i kind of want to do something but can’t get my self to do it, I end up hating the idle alone time instead. If it’s planned alone time I love it.

No, other people cancelling last minute fucks up everything, I’ve already set aside time for this and spent time waiting for this. I basically couldn’t do anything else that day, and now they fucking cancelled so it was all for nothing? Fuck that, it’s annoying as hell and now my day is wasted…