The problem isn’t being “normal” which I’m sure is easy for neurotypicals, but for us awkward types not so much. I’m literally diagnosed “has trouble reading social cues” so yeah sometimes picking up on those might be harder than taxes.
But even normal men are seen as default rapists, assaulters, and murderers simply for being a man. I understand this is because many women have been assaulted before, but for some reason it still seems like painting an entire gender with a broad brush because of the actions of a small portion of that gender is “wrong.” Maybe I only think that because it’s wrong to do it to any other gender, or race, or sexual orientation, and so my broken neurodivergent brain says “well if it’s wrong to do then it is wrong to do now.” Like, I can’t just assume every woman will cheat on me because 3 have, or that every woman will rape me because 2 have (3 if threatening suicide when I say no to convince me to begrudgingly do it counts, not sure since I eventually acquiesced but…) Nor can I assume every black guy is going to pull a knife on me just because it has happened once previously, and if I can count friends being stabbed it happened a lot back when a few of us lived in a particular neighborhood (all moved thankfully), and then there’s the racist ol’ “55% of crime is committed by 13% of the population” shit. Still with all of that, it’s not right to paint those individual’s entire demographic groups as the same, but it’s fine just this one time?
Sorry, I’m just too dumb for such cognitive dissonance and ideological inconsistency, it’s either wrong always or never.
No no, women are worried about their safety and that upsets you. I don’t care what mental issue you have, that doesn’t make your feelings more important than women wanting to be safe.
You really don’t get it, or are you just attempting to discredit me and anyone else who deigns to question your authority as “one of the bad ones?”
Just in case, no, the issue is women treating every man like an auto-rapist just for existing. In fact that is just as misandrist as doing it to black people exclusively is racist, and for a long time all the propaganda about ne— rape beasts did a good job of hyping up that fear. Now that propaganda has broadened to all men, which is progress I guess but maybe not the kind we need.
All you’re saying is women aren’t allowed to act in their best interests for their safety because it hurts men’s feelings.
Don’t compare systemic racism with bullshit “misandry” because the system racism is the same shit that’s also against women too.
That’s why you have women losing rights in the United States. They’re getting raped, forced to be pregnant and even carry that bastard rape child to term even if it kills them.
So excuse me if I say fuck your god-damned man feelings about “boo hoo” I have to work a little bit harder to potentially have a relationship (which you aren’t entitled to) because the systems are literally fighting against women.
Why don’t you act like a fucking man and get over it.
You sound like my Uncle Jim if you replaced “women” with “us” and “men” with… well… let’s say he calls them “blacks.”
Yes, Uncle Jim, I am indeed saying you have to take the blacks’ feelings into account if “acting in your own self interest” means being outwardly racist. Sorry but they actually are people even if a small portion of them seek to victimize others.
“Act like a man” LMAO case in fucking point, you overly emotional woman. Howboutdat? Two can play that game, I can say dumb inflammatory shit too haha. And yet again I’m not allowed to have feelings or emotions, what else is new? Glad I finally got you to take the mask off.
(For the record, while my statement above was a subversion of the statement I was replying to, I don’t think women are actually overly emotional. Something tells me however you do expect me to actually “man up” and not have feelings, and hopefully my hyperbolic statement is effective in pointing out the issue with that. You have a lot of growth and development to do, I hope you get the help you need.)
It’s so funny you’re comparing systematic racism against black people to men having to be less fucking rapey and whiney when they don’t get their way.
And by the way, I am a fuckin man, unlike you, acting like a bitch ass. And until it’s no men, it’s all men you fucking loser. Go kiss your dad on the lips. 💜
Lmao you have to be purposefully missing the point, this is laughable. No dingus, it isn’t just “rapey” men that are treated as defacto rapists, it’s anyone who is AMAB, and even some people who are trans. Duh if a guy demonstrates rapey behavior it’s ok to treat him like a rapist, just like it’s ok for me to be wary of a black dude brandishing a knife, but it’s not ok for me to be wary of any black dudes just because I’ve seen some brandish knives in the past. As such it is not ok to treat men as rapists before they demonstrate rapey behavior.
Have fun with your toxic masculinity, subconscious homophobia (and a possible oedipal complex, yikes), and internalized misandry, bigots like you aren’t worth talking to. You need serious help, seek therapy.
The problem isn’t being “normal” which I’m sure is easy for neurotypicals, but for us awkward types not so much. I’m literally diagnosed “has trouble reading social cues” so yeah sometimes picking up on those might be harder than taxes.
But even normal men are seen as default rapists, assaulters, and murderers simply for being a man. I understand this is because many women have been assaulted before, but for some reason it still seems like painting an entire gender with a broad brush because of the actions of a small portion of that gender is “wrong.” Maybe I only think that because it’s wrong to do it to any other gender, or race, or sexual orientation, and so my broken neurodivergent brain says “well if it’s wrong to do then it is wrong to do now.” Like, I can’t just assume every woman will cheat on me because 3 have, or that every woman will rape me because 2 have (3 if threatening suicide when I say no to convince me to begrudgingly do it counts, not sure since I eventually acquiesced but…) Nor can I assume every black guy is going to pull a knife on me just because it has happened once previously, and if I can count friends being stabbed it happened a lot back when a few of us lived in a particular neighborhood (all moved thankfully), and then there’s the racist ol’ “55% of crime is committed by 13% of the population” shit. Still with all of that, it’s not right to paint those individual’s entire demographic groups as the same, but it’s fine just this one time?
Sorry, I’m just too dumb for such cognitive dissonance and ideological inconsistency, it’s either wrong always or never.
“I’m autism, therefore I’m allowed to be upset that women have feelings”
Are you also the main character?
“I’m woman therefore I’m allowed to be upset that neurodivergent people have feelings.”
Are we having a main character battle? Neurodivergent-man vs Woman-woman?
Eh, I’d read it, fuck it.
No no, women are worried about their safety and that upsets you. I don’t care what mental issue you have, that doesn’t make your feelings more important than women wanting to be safe.
You really don’t get it, or are you just attempting to discredit me and anyone else who deigns to question your authority as “one of the bad ones?”
Just in case, no, the issue is women treating every man like an auto-rapist just for existing. In fact that is just as misandrist as doing it to black people exclusively is racist, and for a long time all the propaganda about ne— rape beasts did a good job of hyping up that fear. Now that propaganda has broadened to all men, which is progress I guess but maybe not the kind we need.
All you’re saying is women aren’t allowed to act in their best interests for their safety because it hurts men’s feelings.
Don’t compare systemic racism with bullshit “misandry” because the system racism is the same shit that’s also against women too.
That’s why you have women losing rights in the United States. They’re getting raped, forced to be pregnant and even carry that bastard rape child to term even if it kills them.
So excuse me if I say fuck your god-damned man feelings about “boo hoo” I have to work a little bit harder to potentially have a relationship (which you aren’t entitled to) because the systems are literally fighting against women.
Why don’t you act like a fucking man and get over it.
You sound like my Uncle Jim if you replaced “women” with “us” and “men” with… well… let’s say he calls them “blacks.”
Yes, Uncle Jim, I am indeed saying you have to take the blacks’ feelings into account if “acting in your own self interest” means being outwardly racist. Sorry but they actually are people even if a small portion of them seek to victimize others.
“Act like a man” LMAO case in fucking point, you overly emotional woman. Howboutdat? Two can play that game, I can say dumb inflammatory shit too haha. And yet again I’m not allowed to have feelings or emotions, what else is new? Glad I finally got you to take the mask off.
(For the record, while my statement above was a subversion of the statement I was replying to, I don’t think women are actually overly emotional. Something tells me however you do expect me to actually “man up” and not have feelings, and hopefully my hyperbolic statement is effective in pointing out the issue with that. You have a lot of growth and development to do, I hope you get the help you need.)
It’s so funny you’re comparing systematic racism against black people to men having to be less fucking rapey and whiney when they don’t get their way.
And by the way, I am a fuckin man, unlike you, acting like a bitch ass. And until it’s no men, it’s all men you fucking loser. Go kiss your dad on the lips. 💜
Lmao you have to be purposefully missing the point, this is laughable. No dingus, it isn’t just “rapey” men that are treated as defacto rapists, it’s anyone who is AMAB, and even some people who are trans. Duh if a guy demonstrates rapey behavior it’s ok to treat him like a rapist, just like it’s ok for me to be wary of a black dude brandishing a knife, but it’s not ok for me to be wary of any black dudes just because I’ve seen some brandish knives in the past. As such it is not ok to treat men as rapists before they demonstrate rapey behavior.
Have fun with your toxic masculinity, subconscious homophobia (and a possible oedipal complex, yikes), and internalized misandry, bigots like you aren’t worth talking to. You need serious help, seek therapy.